Foster Care Abuse Survivors

Child Welfare System Needs Professional Accountability

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Child Welfare is Everyone's Concern - Morguefile.com
Child Welfare is Everyone's Concern - Morguefile.com
Child abuse happens in foster homes and it's mostly the system that fails children and their foster parents. Tighter restrictions are needed to protect children-in-care.

A recent report by Saskatchewan's Children's Advocate concluded that children in Saskatchewan's foster care system are being subjected to many abuses. The report cites abuse is happening because of non-compliance with policy among staff at the Ministry of Social Service. It also cites how children have suffered because of overcrowding in foster homes.

Foster parents have trust in the child welfare system when children are placed in their home. They know the importance of matching an incoming child with everyone who resides in the home. It doesn't take long for some foster families to realize, the system doesn't care about appropriate matching. It's about filling “available” beds and for private agencies – filling beds is profit.

Speaking Out

“AAFG” is a former foster parent. She often caved under pressure in having children she felt were wrong for her home. Two days before AAFG was to attend her father's funeral, she was pressured into having an autistic boy placed in her home with the promise it was only a brief emergency placement. AAFG recalls, “The days turned to weeks and the weeks turned to months.” She believes, “ If they looked at who was best suited for my home instead of profits, there would have been much more success in helping the children.” AAFG no longer fosters as her frustration with a failing system was more stress than she could manage.

Marvin Bernstein who authored the Saskatchewan report says that ministry staff would use “manipulative methods” to coerce foster parents into taking another child into their care.

A former case manager in Ontario, Anne W., worked for a privately-run foster care agency. She said her boss would tell her to lie and “pressure” the foster parents into taking a child even though she felt it was setting everyone up for disaster. Anne W. says, “My boss rarely cared about anyone's welfare. If there was an empty bed, he complained about lost profits.”

What about the Foster Children?

When a child, regardless of age, is apprehended from a parent, anger and betrayal can only begin to explain how that child feels. If the child has mental health issues, (many of these children do), this experience will heighten his or her issues. Compound this with being placed into a “stranger's home”, having to attend a new school and making new friends can result in a manifestation of negative behavioral issues.

When these behavioral issues becomes too much, Anne W. claims the biological parent were often the scape goat. The child's access to the parent becomes limited, supervised and in some cases, removed. Naturally, the child's behaviors escalate and in some situations, other foster children and sometimes biological children will physically lash out in frustration. In more severe cases, foster parents have physically abused foster children in their care.

Abuse in foster homes is a serious problem. Adam Orlow, Esq., is a New York City attorney who has almost five years of experience helping former foster children seek compensation. He passionately believes that when children are placed into care, they need a foster home that is adequate and safe. He says that the screening process for foster parents must be tighter.

Adam Orlow further stated, “Case workers need greater supervision, preferably by an independent body.” He also recommends that in addition to closely monitoring the case workers, having the workers conduct unscheduled visits to foster homes is essential. Orlow adds, “Too many times there is a lack of supervision.”

The child welfare system in Canada and the United States needs a massive overhaul that includes professional accountability. Sadly, due to the lack of accountability, if there is suspected abuse, contacting the local child welfare agency is not always enough.

Karen Stephenson, Nyssa Woudstra

Karen Stephenson - Karen has written for several newspapers and print media in addition to many online publications. She holds a B.A. in English and an ...

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Aug 13, 2009 12:01 AM
Guest :
CPS seems to not care if there is abuse in foster homes, perhaps because they know that when the story of foster care deaths becomes public, there will be more child abuse reports (and hence more "leads") and there were also be more laws, more money, and more people believing that parents are all abusers or potential abusers.
Aug 24, 2009 9:39 PM
Guest :
This is a story that is rarely told, you hardly ever hear about foster children being abused or being forced to move from house to house. Foster care really affects the state of mind and they're own well-being. No one seems to know or realize this. Not any talk show host, or police officer, It saddens me, as a foster child suffering from this same mental abuse, that there is nobody there to help me over-come this obstacle, or to even improve the Foster care system that is falling quite rapidly.
Oct 30, 2009 11:07 AM
Guest :
the foster care agengcies dont care they just worry about the money that they get thats y social workers drop us off at any ones homes and leave us there to be babysitted until were 18 nd dont have to worry about the state care any more. i romise that my child will never end up in foster care.
Nov 6, 2009 10:01 AM
Guest :
i to am a person that was abused in care not at home :( and i told them that the workers and foster homes made me lie, told me that if i didnt lie they would hurt me and make sure that i never see my visits i was young and scarred and wat more do i hv to do im 14 right now and i hv such fears of them coming and trying to hurt me again... my mom and family fought so hard for me i love her and everyone that fought for me to to come home ...im still dealing with them today and i dont even live in the same provence ...we movied and ya ..:(
May 26, 2010 3:09 AM
Guest :
Foster care is a huge bussiness, and so is children's Aid. People don’t understand what the Child Protective Services really mean. We need to understand how the Children’s Aid seizes unlimited control, and how this is happening.
In my opinion when the Children’s Aid became secure, realized they could get billion, assure victory of no oversight, accountability and transparency that when they seize their golden chance to get Billion from the government. They believe people will never stand up, and demand accountability. After all they save children.
They also found something when they came across people that would believe in their powerful words. Useful tool , effective speakers. Many people believe all families are drug addict, bad people, and they were the good people in a way to attract rich people to become useful tool. They are using people and the media in a very clever way. This is a commonly view, but there is a different view that if you have not seen it, or been involve in Children’s Aid you cannot imagine. Degrading conducts ( selfish, cruel, treacherous, shameless)
Highest target is poor parents to lose children,, because they do not have the resources or money to fight the system.
Actively parents to fight on behalf of their children, are arrested and incarcerated, to defame and ridiculed in the local media in order to destroy, and cover up their mask in misconduct.
They are a good match to Hitler.
Look who is being paid!
•State employees
•Lawyers
•Court investigators
•Court personnel
•Coroner
•And judges
This is how it works. A string of connection all link to Children’s Aid;
•Parenting class
•Anger management classes
•Counseling referral
•Psychologists (7 to 10 thousand dollars) now every mother, father, and each set of grandparents for most part have to take the test= to $60 thousand dollars)
•Psychiatrists (7 to 10 thousand dollars)
• Neuropsychological consultation
•Counselors
•Case workers
•Therapists
•Foster parents
•Adoptive parents
•Therapy classes
•Multiple other job
Double Dipping
The funding continues as long the child is out of your home. When a child in foster care is placed in a new family, more fund are available. That is why children moved from one foster home to the next.
May 26, 2010 3:11 AM
Guest :
Great article, thanks!
Jun 8, 2010 3:30 PM
Guest :
I have heard countless stories of foster children being abused and used as slaves, it's just sad
Aug 28, 2010 9:07 PM
Guest :
The child protective services agency in Xenia, Ohio is especially bad. I was severely abused by my biological mother, and they never took me out of it. Then when I had my own child, they came back and took him away to put him claiming they found high amounts of opiates(a kind of painkiller) in my blood when he was born. This is a lie and impossible because I am deathly allergic to opiates and have been hospitalized twice for anaphylatic shock from taking prescribed painkillers in previous years and stay away from them. Truly, they just seen my bundle of joy as a little bag of money for them to take. Worst yet, they didnt let me visit him, and got a judge and others to adopt him out without my consent lying on me saying I was a danger to him, when I never even got to take him home out of the NICU(He was a preemie). We have to fight harder or else this could be your son or daughter it happens to next!
Sep 9, 2010 7:25 PM
Guest :
Actually there ARE people angry about this who haven't been there themself, so knowledge IS spreading.

I've never been to foster care myself, but reading up on it sure makes me hate the ******* government. I tell everybody I know about what is going on, because there are CHILDREN DYING. This IS as big of a deal as 9/11 or pedophiles on the internet. It's just the news doesn't see it that way.

As the internet grows, more and more people are ignoring the mainstream news. It's only a matter of time before nearly everyone will see the truth.
Oct 3, 2010 7:43 AM
Guest :
We in California have 87.000 kids in foster care system, and we need your help befor this calif election to let Meg Whittem on her web site know just what happens in the foster care system. I went through that system at age 5 and went through 42 group homes and foster homes and this agency needs to be shut down, So please help let them know now is the time, In God we trust
Oct 3, 2010 7:45 AM
Guest :
Over 900 homes in the past two years have been closed down do to very bad things to childern in this system, and that came from the agency them selfs and found to be true
Oct 3, 2010 7:55 AM
Guest :
Please help me try to fight for these kids in calif I do know what they do, and they are not hearing me, the people in calif need to know by us the people who have been there what the truth really is the fact is they do not care its no more about the kids its about the system, and I need all the help I can get this has got to change and I have been fighting for years to change this and bring the shinning light of this on this evil and they are even now manipulating the children even more we need our law makers and the people to here us. 40 years later I still deal with what they did to me, and they can do no more to me they did everything but kill me they can do no more. Everyone in my family lived a short life from what they did to us in foster care , I am the last one living, please help
Oct 4, 2010 7:13 PM
Guest :
I went through 42 group homes and foster homes at age 5, and so much more, and you know what it is still the same today. There have been so many murders of the children in the calif system and these people who gave the license to kill still got there job. Every time I go out to the dependency court, parents always tell me how there child has been hurt by the foster home people, and no action is ever taken. I got the reports as to how many children they cot hurting them, but to take a child from there home is another case of harm, and they know it. Harm to a child in these cases are three times more painful to a child because the child is manipulated to believe they are safe, and the child is tought to believe there parents don't love them if they don't complete there programs that hold no truth to start with, the fact is the parents do love there kids but they place standards on the familys to that of Government, even in the foster homes and it becomes like our school systems and people cant see this yet, and behind closed doors they even tell you the truth that it is not about the child or the family, how can they lie to me , They cant so please help all that know the truth, tell all your churches and stand up for the truth
Oct 4, 2010 7:28 PM
Guest :
They want you to believe there is more abuse in public then in the system thats how they got away with it all but this is cumming to light across this nation what they are and have been doing in the foster care system. Calif they are now going to drugging up the kids so they can get SSI to support them and get fed moneys to keep them in foster care, we all have to band together, and bring this matter to the highest leaders of the christian church maybe they can help us all come toghter and do marches on the issues
Oct 4, 2010 7:36 PM
Guest :
What they also know is that with all the problems these kids end up with end up in JH jail and Prison, and then they keep them in the system forever if they can and beat them down over and over. Now in Sacramento ca they are trying to get the children to believe there system is good and want there help to fix it so they can later blame tit on the kids they are the ones who said we should do it this way. The churches dont know how bad it is for a child the child offten can only express it by acting out so we have to let people know the truth. The first christian church in Visalia ca does know the truth. Stephen Stoner told them and showed them the truth on this
Jan 2, 2011 5:10 AM
Guest :
this article really hit home.I was sexually abused at age 10 and then because of acting out was sent to a foster home.I was then sexually abused there by the foster Mother who gave me alcohol every weekend to "keep me in line".The foster Dad had an unending supply of boys to abuse as well.Two of these boys have since been charged as adults of abusing children themselves.I want to do something about what happened but it was so long ago that I don't think anyone would care now.
Jan 2, 2011 5:29 AM
Guest :
In case you didn't know this, there is now over 400.000.00 four hundred thousand children in the system being indoctrinated and given right to the very same ones they were taken from Big government and given a tax right off, system fixed, you cant fix it it must be stopped. When the people learn all the truth about all the murders molestation, and harm that has came to the family's and children, you cant fix this system, it was a system that should never have been to start with, its socialism, and it kills, but you know when you look back for the past 4o years we got all the parents from this system and we need to start sharing the truth
Feb 25, 2011 1:06 PM
Guest :
I was in Foster Care from the age of 2 months till the age of 5. Being moved from home to home has a big impact on a child, I am currently 16 and have emence trust issues and have a poor relationship with my family and peers due to the fact I was constanly moved around. I have lost the ability to make connections and have a strong meaningful bond with the people around me, that's why I am a strong beliver in not shifting a kid from home to home. Also, foster care need to have unschedueld visits from the state to insure saftey and make sure the children have a clean living environment. Abuse was constant at my home.
Mar 22, 2011 12:45 AM
Guest :
I can't even finish reading these comments my eyes swell up with tears.I 'm a parent of 3 kids and could only imagine how these kids feel when they come into foster care. I don't understand the world we live in. where a child is equal to $$$$. I will pray for all these babies and those of you that went through this I'm trully sorry :-(
Jun 14, 2011 5:30 AM
Guest :
CPS is a mafia organization, they even make themselves obvious, they put the deffinition of child abuse as abuse from a parent directly on their page, the goal is to remove as many kids from good homes and put them in foster care. the more they switch them from home to home, is more profits, they clearly dont care about kids. people need ro speak out, more and let their voices be heard, instead of posting on the comments, get on youtube, start a group. Do something.
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