Female Porn Addiction

One in Three Visitors to Adult Websites are Women

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Women are slowly catching up to men with online porn addiction. 9.4 million women access adult websites every month and some of those sites include child pornography.

There's no surprise reading the 2003 statistics conducted by the Internet Filter Review. In fact, the numbers are projected to be higher considering this is a five year old study. They found that 25% of total search engine requests are porn-related. 12% of all websites have adult only content. However, what's surprising is that women are quickly catching up to men when it comes to obsessing and accessing cyber porn.

Due to anonymity and accessibility of Internet sexual content, the computer tends to accelerate a person from being “at risk” to “addicted” at a rapid rate.

Women and Chat Rooms

The ratio of women to men in chat rooms is two to one. The Internet Filter Review found that women are taking their Internet affairs to real life encounters at twice the rate of men. In the University of Florida's study, “Online Dating Virtually Irresistible to Some Married Folks”, states that married people find it very easy to have an affair. It also says that counseling organizations are reporting that chat rooms are the fastest-rising cause of relationship breakdowns and the problem only stands to get worse. Regardless of the woman or the man engaging in an online affair, research shows the spouse feels as betrayed as they would if skin-to-skin adultery had occurred. Women abusing their spouse's trust while trolling in chat rooms is on the rise.

Women and Child Pornography

Women involved in child pornography is a reality. Although the number of women doesn't come near the number of men involved with this crime, they are involved. Family Safe Media reports that in a 2006 study, “teen sex” was a search term used 13,982,729 times in 2006. Out of those who searched “teen sex” 56% were women. In the same study, 18% of women searched for “teen porn” out of 6,130,065 searches.

There have been plenty of news stories about women being arrested in child pornography. In February 2008, the Ontario Provincial Police made the largest coordinated child pornography sweep in Ontario's history. 22 people were arrested including a 28 year old woman charged with making available and possession of child pornography.

A neo-natal nurse at McMaster University Medical Center was charged with child pornography along with her husband, who was the president of the Flamborough Hockey Association in Hamilton, Ontario.

Last year, an Illinois woman pleaded guilty to creating child pornography. She admitted to doping her 6 year old twins with cough syrup so she could take nude photos of them with her boyfriend.

A more shocking case involved Julie Bishop of Grandview, Missouri. She pleaded guilty to child pornography. She possessed more than 600 images of child porn, some of which involved sadistic or violent sexual acts with children. She admitted to distributing some of the porn to others.

Porn Facts (According to Internet Filter Review)

  • 13% of women (20% of men) admit to accessing porn while at work.
  • 70% of women who access porn keep it a secret.
  • 17% of women admit they are addicted to porn.
  • Every second 28,258 Internet users are viewing porn.
  • 100,000 websites have illegal child pornography.
  • 70% of all Internet porn traffic occurs on workdays 9-5.

Sex and Porn Addiction

Porn and sex addiction for women and men is a growing problem due to the Internet. Those with porn and sex addiction tend to be people who are obsessive compulsive, have manic depression or have a narcissistic personality.

The development of sexual addiction for many starts early in life. Early exposure to porn, witnessing a parent behave in a highly promiscuous or inappropriate manner or early discovery of self-stimulation are factors in sex addiction.

Keeping a Vigilance

With so much pornography just a click away, women with porn and sex addiction, in all likelihood, will become a permanent fixture in society. However, in fighting the war on child pornography, there needs to be a constant vigilance with police, all levels of government and within the general public.

Karen Stephenson, Nyssa Woudstra

Karen Stephenson - Karen has written for several newspapers and print media in addition to many online publications. She holds a B.A. in English and an ...

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Jan 20, 2009 12:28 PM
Guest :
Finally someone tells the other side:it isn't always men who are "porn addicts!" Thank-you!
Jan 29, 2009 12:13 PM
estefania :
wow! i never knew porn could become an addiction.
Sep 1, 2009 5:25 PM
Guest :
This is probably the most accurate topic I have ever read, I started looking online at 11 & caught a tape of my parents as well at about the same time. What people really really need to understand is yes we may look at it, But we have self control & I would never act out anything like that. It's just something I do online & look at in the privacy of my own home.
Sep 1, 2009 7:01 PM
Guest :
This is probably the most accurate topic I have ever read, I started looking online at 11 & caught a tape of my parents as well at about the same time. What people really really need to understand is yes we may look at it, But we have self control & I would never act out anything like that. It's just something I do online & look at in the privacy of my own home.
Sep 14, 2010 3:37 AM
Guest :
To guest of Sept 2009: your fooling yourself if you think you can control this issue. it changes your perspectives and expectations in real life. it releases endorphins in your brain that like a drug addiction pushes you to desire more release. Actively porn viewing is never static, it always grows. That is why it sells. People get bored, and then look for more to regain the high that porn viewing in the past acheived, just like any other addiction. The result is you are training yourself for unstatisfaction until you satiate your desire for more. You may think that you are in control, but in time you will go farther than you wanted to go, it will have control over you. Rather than spending your time in the realm of reality and healthy relationships, you will be driven to the realm of fantasy either through romance novels, stories, porn, or real life experiences. To believe that you are in total control of something that takes more and more of your time until your life becomes unmanagable is pretty similar to all those who think they can handle meth, crack, or alcohol. I'm not saying that everyone who looks at porn is an addict. But to the guest who wrote in sept 2009, the lie you are feeding yourself is the same one that men feed themselves in the heat of their addiction. That is why they get caught. Its not that they are stupid. Its that they they think that they can control it and hide it. When in actuallity their habits become more and more riskey as their perspective gets skewed and hunger for it grows and grows. Have you spent more time than planned on porn? Has your desire grown over the years? Are you spending time watching porn or thinking about it when you are suppossed to be egaging in other healthy relationships? Have you grown bored with the sexual stories, ideas, and pictures that use to excite you? Do yourself a favor. Take the Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST). You can find it on lots of websites. Its free and will give you a more neutral review of your habits. Sex is a beautiful God-given gift. It is meant to be enjoyed in the context of a loving God-honoring relationship. There should be no shame, guilt, or pain. Endorphins are released to give you pleasure as you bond with the mate that God has given you and you become one. Porn and Sexual Romance novels bypass all of that, just like cocaine. Why wouldn't it become addicting? It is so much easier than real life, so much more immediate, and you don't have to deal with the idiosyncrecies of another person. Rather the person of your fantasy always delievers, he always does exactly what you want, he always knows. That is not reality, and though it may seem to satiate you for a while, it won't be long until find yoruself driven to "look" again. That's because it never really satisfied you and your made to go throught hard work of a real relationship that exists even when the computer is off. You are made for something greater than all of your dreams. Don't sell yourself short. Does porn satisfy? Yes. But only for a little while, and all the while you are destroying yourself chasing the dream that will never come true because your ideas of fantasy can't be fulfilled in real life. Your dooming yourself to unfulfillment, hurt, pain, and sadness. You might not be there yet. But if you stay on the track you are on, you will. I know plenty of people who are addicted, and married. I think the saddest thing is rather than investing in their spouse, they just can't wait until their spouse goes to bed or leaves the house so that they can masturbate or look at porn. Its like trading food for garbage. Be careful. That will destory your soul.

Reese
Mar 16, 2011 8:30 PM
eva domingo :
I totally agree. the perception regarding sex addiction is always falls on men but actually women is also part of it. it's just sad that the number of individuals that are addicted on porn is getting higher.
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